Once men cross the age of 40, they begin to feel that they might have become too old to date younger women. It doesn’t help that young women in their 20s start calling them uncle, which can be rather disappointing. Some men start acting the part. But are you really too old to date younger women? Is life really over for you as far as dating women half your age is concerned? Let’s check out some facts.
It’s no secret that a lot of young women like older men. This is why dating sites are so full of younger women looking for older men. Contrary to what many people believe, it not all about money, although money is an important factor in every relationship. A majority of women who like older men are not looking for a father figure either.
So what is it that younger women find so attractive in older men? Older men have three things going for them: personal experience, success and confidence. All of these three traits are like magnets to women who have an eye for older men.
Let’s start with the value of personal experience. Personal experience is something that can only be gained with age. You know things that younger people don’t. You have seen things that younger people haven’t. You have done things that younger people haven’t done. You can keep her entertained for hours with personal stories and anecdotes. She know that you can deal with any situation because you have been through a similar situation before. She knows that experience has taught you to do the right things and make the right decisions.
Everyone is attracted to successful people. Success means money, prestige, stability and sometimes fame. Successful people have a more positive outlook. They are more contented and happier. They are bolder and surer of themselves. They are respected by everyone. A woman who is in the company of a successful man is treated with respect. Older men are generally successful. Even if you don’t consider yourself successful, you have probably left your struggling days far behind in the past.
In the eyes of a woman, confidence is perhaps the most attractive trait in a man. Confidence comes with experience and success. The more successful a man is the more confident he is. A confident man is sure of himself and his abilities. He smiles more often and is generally in a good mood. He takes the initiative and usually makes the first move. He is not afraid to admit his mistakes and apologize. He is assertive and does not hesitate to go after what he wants. More importantly, he makes a woman feel sexy.
Even if you are not as successful as you would like to be, you still have your life’s experiences and the confidence that comes with it. How old are you now? Are you in your 40s, 50s, 60s or 70s? Your age is irrelevant if you are still able to lead an active lifestyle. Remember Playboy-owner Hugh Hefner. He used to date women young enough to be great-granddaughters when he was 90.
In conclusion, no matter how old you are, you are never too old to date a younger woman. In fact, you will not be too old as long as you have a heart that beats like a young man’s. It’s not hard to find
. Just join a good dating site that caters to your age group.