Many women are attracted to men who are much older than them. There is nothing new or strange about it. If you happen to be one such lucky man, you have probably stopped to wonder what she wants from you. Is it love? Is it sex? Or is she in it just for my money? There is “no one size fits all” answer to this question because different women want different things.
What a lot of women, both young and old, want in a relationship is stability. This is one department in which older men really take the cake. They are done with playing around and want nothing more than a stable relationship. Young women who have been in one or more failed relationships with men of their own age group are often disillusioned with relationships. So, many younger women looking for older men want stability in their life.
Financial security is another important thing women want from their men. And why should they not? Life is uncertain at the best of times. A nice house to live in, a shiny car to go driving, a good income to put food on the table and buy pretty clothes, and a fat bank balance to ward off bad days – these are the things that make life easier and more certain. There is nothing wrong for a woman wanting financial security.
A father plays an important role in girl’s life. He is her provider, her mentor and her pillar of strength. As she grows up, she will have fond memories of her father showering her with love and affection. Women who adore their father, or lost their father at a young age, or have never had one are often subconsciously looking for a father figure. They automatically gravitate towards older men who have some of the qualities of her real or imaginary father.
While talking on the subject, one mustn’t forget love. Though most people look at older men younger women relationships with a certain amount of skepticism, love does play a big role in the relationship. There are countless examples of couples with a huge age gap who are deeply and madly in love with each other.
Last but not least, there is something very important that women want from their partner and that is the ability to make them laugh.
“We are best mates. He makes me laugh every day. I almost feel like I never had a proper boyfriend before.” This is the beautiful supermodel Rosie Huntington-Whitley (of Transformers: Dark of the Moon fame) talking about her film star husband Jason Statham, who is known for his tough guy image in films like The Transporters and Furious 7. They have an age difference of 20 years between them.
Huntington-Whitely is not the only woman who is attracted to older men for their ability to make her laugh. Older men have more life experiences and more stories and anecdotes to tell. They are also more confident. Many of them can really make women laugh. Do you happen to be one such man by any chance?