Older men are generally thought to be good lovers. Quite often, their maturity and experience are cited as the reason for this assumption. Buy how much truth is there in it? As a young woman interested in age gap dating, do you think they are better lovers than younger men? Let’s examine the facts and get to know the truth.
Older men are driven by the need to love and be loved in return
Older men looking to date younger women are often driven by an intense need to love and be loved in return. Because of this, they give love more generously and expect to be loved in the same way. But they will love you just as much even if they know that you will not love them the same way. They will exhibit their love by showering the woman they love with voluminous words of affection, beautiful compliments and expensive gifts.
In contrast, young men are often more selfish in their love. Because they are not so much driven by the need to be loved, they are not so generous with their love either. This is not to say that younger men do not love intensely. They do, but they want you to love them more.
Older men spend money on their younger lovers more generously
You may think that older men are frugal with their money and you will be right in thinking so. But when it comes to pleasing the woman they love, they also tend to spend money more generously. They will not hesitate to buy expensive jewelries, clothes and other gifts for you. Many older men have been known to gift their ladylove with expensive cars and apartments. But for that to happen, you have to first win their trust, which takes some hard work.
However, girls looking for older men should not be seen to be demanding. If you start asking for expensive gifts, they might start questioning your motive. After all, they have learned more from life’s experiences that you have. When a man gives a woman gifts, it’s an expression of his love. But when he is forced to or tricked into giving gifts, then he will not be happy and that may lead to the premature ending of the relationship.
Older men are more aware of their mortality
As people get older, they become more aware of their own mortality. They know that death may come sooner than expected and that with each passing year, they have one less year to live. As a result, they become more careful, less reckless, and more responsible. All of this translates into a more loving person. So an older man will love you more and he will love you more passionately.
A man in the twilight of his life loves his much younger lover like there is no tomorrow. But even men who are no so old love their much younger lovers with a passion rarely exhibited by younger men, because they know the true value of a good and loving woman in their life. They know that they do will not have many more chances. These are the reasons older men are better lovers than younger men.