It is not unusual for younger women to be interested in older men. In fact, there are numerous examples throughout our history when younger women had happy and long romantic relationships with older men. When it comes to love, age is just a number, so you don’t have to worry about that. Fortunately, many people have realized this and this is one of the reasons why the number of younger women seeking older men is increasing. Obviously, the number of success stories is increasing too. But, before you start a story like this, you will need to go on a first date. In case you are planning something like this, you should know that there are some safety tips that every young woman should know.
Keep your family and friends informed
There are many women looking for older men out there, yet many of them are trying to keep their activity as a secret. This is wrong. There is nothing to be ashamed of and you should definitely inform your family and friends when you finally arrange a first date. You don’t have to tell everyone that you are going on a date, but you should inform at least one family member and one friend about the place where you are going when you are planning to come back and how can they reach you if they need you. In case there are some changes during the date, inform them in a timely manner (text messages are very helpful in situations like this).
Stay in public
The first date doesn’t have to be extremely romantic and even if it is, this doesn’t mean that you should spend your time in an isolated place where no one is around. So, the main point is that you should meet in public, in areas where people can see you and even remember you. It’s easy for people to remember a couple that’s on their first date.
Go on a double date
Their friend and your friend don’t have to be interested in each other, they will be here only to make you feel more comfortable. If your friend is close to you all the time, there are fewer chances that something will go wrong. For instance, they can’t make you drink more alcohol than you usually drink or trick you to go home with them if you don’t want to.
Don’t reveal all your personal information
If you want to stay safe, you should not tell your older gentleman everything about yourself. This is your first date and they don’t need to find out everything about you. On top of that, the majority of older men like younger women that are a little bit mysterious.
Use your own car or public transportation
Since you don’t want to tell them exactly where you live, it is better to use your car when you go on your first date or use the subway or bus or any other form of public transportation.